Notes from a Cumdumpster Part II

TC: Did not check links because I just don't want to deal with it anymore right now.

After being scolded and then giving the issue more thought, my position is as follows:

I'm still disgusted that most porn involves degrading women and using them and not any sort of mutual pleasure. I was scolded that I am judging something I haven't seen much of, but everything I have seen involves shit going in and out of women, which the women obviously do not really enjoy at all. Things are done to them solely for the pleasure of men, and that has a lot more to do with power and dominance than just sex.

I had said months ago that I would be happy to watch some porn where both people seemed to genuinely enjoy themselves, and even better would be porn where that was the case and the woman was in charge. The person I asked said he didn't have anything like that. Therefore, I assume there is very little porn like that. My assumption stems from the fact that he has a ton, but none like that, and the fact that he didn’t even bother to try to find any like that, causing me to infer it would be difficult to find. Though I keep hearing about all this new "porn for women" that is coming out.

Really, people can do what they want. They can put whatever sort of garbage in their heads they want to, they can think it’s cool and sexy to cum on women’s faces, and I will simply try to avoid people I think are damaged in ways I cannot deal with. I'd prefer if more people were like me, and it'd be nice if I wasn't surrounded by misogyny most days of my life, but whatever. I'm sure there are people who think I shouldn't enjoy Salad Fingers the way I do.

My big complaint about people is that they don't think. They don't think about what they do, they don't think about the shit they consume, where it comes from, where it goes, what it does to them in the process.

We are all products of our environments. We all had plenty of shit shoved into our brains before we were able to reason very well for ourselves. We are all parts of societies that carry their own values and norms. But most people never stop to think for more than two minutes about any of those things.

I was raised that porn is bad and immoral, blah blah. I was affected by men who watch it and think that the shit they see is cool and a good way to treat women, or at least some women, who have it coming. But I can use my brain and think for myself. And it seems to me that porn in of itself is not bad or wrong, but that a lot of it that is produced and consumed is pretty tasteless and has a potential to unduly influence young boys to form wrongheaded ideas about women. But in the end, most people are just hairless apes, so who gives a fuck what they do anyway?